Trust in you
There’s many situations in life that scare us or turn us away from our true path. But do you know why that succeeds ? Because ultimately we do not trust ourselves. If you trusted that you could make it in a situation, then you’d stay committed and locked in wouldn’t you ? But if that trust wavered and unstable thoughts begin to wreak havoc within your mind…well then you’ll quit.
Life is hard, but quitting on yourself is even harder. I could have traveled to Alabama my Freshman year of college and I would have been in my sophomore year at Alabama A&M. No, instead I’m a sophomore at SCC, no issue with that in the slightest but since I didn’t trust myself and I leaned on others insights surrounding MY life, I didn’t go. And it is still one of my most thought of regrets.
Now I will say, to build TRUE self trust and self confidence, you need to love yourself unconditionally. And I don’t mean you love yourself here and there or you talk negatively upon yourself when something isn’t going right. No I mean I need you to have radical self belief and delusional self trust if you don’t currently have any and naturally you’ll build it. Love & trust are the two core foundations within this life.
Love not only stabilizes you but it also allows your trust in yourself to be open, and then you can begin to trust in yourself. They work hand in hand really, but if I never trusted myself I wouldn’t have been able to see 10 states in the span of two weeks. I wouldn’t have been able to realize that there is so much more to life outside of Sacramento. That the only persons opinions I need in my life is Myself, my mom & My significant other whenever that person comes. In divine timing of course but you get the gist.
When you do not trust yourself, you allow others opinions to sway you to a decision that your higher and more aligned version of self would have NEVER chosen. When you do not love yourself, you let all the doubt & neglect creep in which only pushes that trust further and further and it brings in more negativity and more of a lack mentality. You are way more powerful than you may realize. Tap into your power.
The one who is living your life is you. The one who is experiencing the bliss, the bs and the inbetween is YOU. Nobody else, so why ask for someone else’s opinion on YOUR life choices. Trust in yourself to make the right decisions that fit into your life. It doesn’t have to be the traditional way, show them something different and don’t be afraid of it.
I’m learning that true self love & confidence and self trust is always going to be represented as a negative thing such as ego and manipulation. No, because you have such a optimistic approach and outlook to life simply because you TRUST yourself to make the decisions to put yourself in a better platform within life, people will try and twist that into anything negative. It’s only to drag you down and keep you from thinking of yourself in the right way.
Trust yourself enough to cut that person off. Trust in yourself to leave a situation. Trust yourself to make it. Trust yourself to get the job. Trust yourself to get into the school. Trust yourself. Trust yourself.
Don’t be afraid of your own authenticity. Don’t be afraid of your truth. Don’t be afraid of yourself. I love you
From me to you, with love.